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Compersion Journal

Compersion Journal

dawn says:   About 8 years into our polyamory journey, I found myself really struggling. This is about the time that we switched from co-amory to a form of polyamory that had us dating separately. The first form of polyamory that we tried, co-amory, was really...

Fair vs Equal

Dan says One year, Karen and I took a five day cruise for vacation. It was great! Being able to unwind, a very lax agenda, room service, romantic meals by moonlight, just a fantastic experience. When we returned, Dawn was happy to see me and, after letting me go on...
Comparing Sex

Comparing Sex

(exert from Polyamory Toolkit) Dan says… I happen to have sex with people who have sex with other people. Specifically, the two people I currently sleep with most often (1) also sleep with other people. My other partners have sex with a variety of other people, male...
Breaking Habitual Patterns

Breaking Habitual Patterns

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) We mention a few times in this book that there are times when we have had a partner tell us something and we did not respond as our best self. One of the big ones for me was when I found out one partner had slept with someone new...
Don’t take things personally

Don’t take things personally

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) Of course I take things personally. Everything is about me, right? Well, not so much it turns out. Other people’s actions certainly ‘feel’ like i should be taking it personally. My emotions tell me it’s personal. But, it’s really...
Anchors

Anchors

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) Sometimes when I’m feeling emotional, I’ll turn to my ancient teddy bear for comfort. I mean, this poor bear is ancient. There are photographs of me just at the age of walking and holding onto this teddy bear at a Christmas tree....