Select Page
Couples Privilege

Couples Privilege

Dawn says   So, as you may have noticed, Dan and I in a polyamorous relationship that involves other partners. We are also a couple. We’ve raised kids together, pay bills together, run a business together and we share dreams and goals. Some may say we have...
Comparing Sex

Comparing Sex

(exert from Polyamory Toolkit) Dan says… I happen to have sex with people who have sex with other people. Specifically, the two people I currently sleep with most often (1) also sleep with other people. My other partners have sex with a variety of other people, male...
Breaking Habitual Patterns

Breaking Habitual Patterns

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) We mention a few times in this book that there are times when we have had a partner tell us something and we did not respond as our best self. One of the big ones for me was when I found out one partner had slept with someone new...
Anchors

Anchors

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) Sometimes when I’m feeling emotional, I’ll turn to my ancient teddy bear for comfort. I mean, this poor bear is ancient. There are photographs of me just at the age of walking and holding onto this teddy bear at a Christmas tree....
Managing Surprises

Managing Surprises

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) I once started a relationship and, not wanting my current partner to be worried about it, I told her we are just dating but it wouldn’t go anywhere. Fast forward twelve years and we all own a house together…. One of the...