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Fair vs Equal

Dan says One year, Karen and I took a five day cruise for vacation. It was great! Being able to unwind, a very lax agenda, room service, romantic meals by moonlight, just a fantastic experience. When we returned, Dawn was happy to see me and, after letting me go on...

Couples Privilege

Couples Privilege

Dawn says   So, as you may have noticed, Dan and I in a polyamorous relationship that involves other partners. We are also a couple. We’ve raised kids together, pay bills together, run a business together and we share dreams and goals. Some may say we have...

Concerns about Sexual Transmitted Infections

exert from "Polyamory Toolkit, Concerns about Sexual Transmitted Infections" One of the Big Conversations dawn and I had when we got started with polyamory was ‘what about sexually transmitted diseases’. If your monogamy was trustworthy and really did just include two...

Comparing Sex

Comparing Sex

(exert from Polyamory Toolkit) Dan says… I happen to have sex with people who have sex with other people. Specifically, the two people I currently sleep with most often (1) also sleep with other people. My other partners have sex with a variety of other people, male...

Breaking Habitual Patterns

Breaking Habitual Patterns

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) We mention a few times in this book that there are times when we have had a partner tell us something and we did not respond as our best self. One of the big ones for me was when I found out one partner had slept with someone new...

Don’t take things personally

Don’t take things personally

(excerpt from The Polyamory Toolkit) Of course I take things personally. Everything is about me, right? Well, not so much it turns out. Other people’s actions certainly ‘feel’ like i should be taking it personally. My emotions tell me it’s personal. But, it’s really...

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